I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost three years. However, throughout our entire relationship I'm always catching him flirting with other girls and it hurt me a lot. We've had a rough three years together, but now we're trying to make things work and it seems we might actually be truly happy again. But I'm scared. I don't want to get hurt again, three years is enough. What should I do?
Is he still interested? Is he REALLY trying? Can you tell he really is or is he just playing it off? It’s not right for him to be doing that to you, especially if you guys have been through a rough time, especially since it’s been a long time.
You have to let him know how you’re feeling about this. He needs to take this seriously or else he’ll lose you and he needs to know that. If he isn’t bothered by that fact, then the relationship just may not work out. You can’t just be putting in all the effort yourself or it’ll be extremely difficult and may not last. Talk to him. Let him know you’re really serious about this and that he shouldn’t be flirting with other girls when he has you.