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To the anon before about intimacy, when I was in a LDR we always talked about how it would feel to touch each other after how long we'd be apart. And eventually that lead to telling each other scenarios which lead to pleasing each other over the phone which was surprisingly intimate. Try it out
Anonymous
so I noticed that with ldb's sometimes it's hard to tell where the line is between friendship and lovers because it's so hard to express that love when physical intimacy is taken out of the picture. have you noticed this? any ideas on how to emphasize the "lover" part? I wish I could touch him but I just can't ugh
Anonymous

Yeah I’ve kind of noticed it. It is hard being in a long distance relationship to get in that lover part. It sucks too not being able to :/

Usually though, a lot of other ldr couples usually do stuff through skype and/or sexting and such. It kind of brings out more of the intimate part of the relationship even though you aren’t physically together. 

tokeflow:

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He didn't even care that I was down for the last two nights. I bawled my eye's out yesterday. Do you know who rescued me? our mutual friend. He didn't even ask me what was wrong, he just assumed I was pissed at him. I lost my mom when I was 19, mother's day isn't easy for me. He wasn't even there for me :( Why can't he be there for me when I am always there for him?
Anonymous

Oh goodness ): 

Do you have any idea why he wouldn’t be there for you? Have you talked to him about this before? Does he not realize that mother’s day would be hard for you? Especially if you guys are together, that seems kind of .. obvious in a way if he knows you lost your mom. :/ 

You should tell him how you truly feel. You should find out why he’s not there for you when you need him, especially being together and all. Stay strong lovely. 

i suggested a break and i think were going to take one. its also a good time too because she has to go on a trip starting tomorrow till friday and maybe she can think about everything then and tell me what she's chosen when shes ready to
Anonymous

That sounds like a pretty good idea/plan then. I hope she makes her decision and really thinks things through. Stay strong! I’m always here if you need to talk.

well she said that shes having doubts because she doesnt want a relationship right now but she doesnt want us to be over.i did tell her all of that but she keep saying she doesnt know what to do and that shes sorry and shes just as lost as i am right now. i want her to stay with me but were practically over by now but she doesnt want it to be and neither do i but shes not making up her mind and im so scared
Anonymous

Have you both ever thought about taking a break? Do you think that would help her realize things? Taking a break isn’t the best thing but it’s not completely breaking up either, in my opinion. 

In all honesty,

distant-affection:

I’m afraid to lose you. Sometimes, I may hide that feeling, but I really am afraid. We’ve been through so much together, we’ve made so many memories together, and to just throw it all away and not create more would be horrible. To have you suddenly disappear from my life is a scary thought. To become strangers again. I’m afraid to lose someone that means so much to me.